28 Signs He Is Pursuing You

You know that feeling when you are just killing it at your job, slaying your workouts, and killing it in the dating world?

Yeah well, then out of nowhere you start to feel a bit off. You’re not sure what’s going on, but you know that something is definitely different.

It could be that “crush” you’ve been trying to ignore or maybe even the guy who has been pursuing you hardcore.

If any of these signs sound familiar, then congrats! He’s pursuing you and interest is mutual.

Here are 28 signs he is definitely interested in making things happen with you. Enjoy!

How do you know if a guy is genuinely interested?

Here are some signs that a guy is genuinely interested in you:

1. He makes an effort to talk to you

2. He remembers things about you

3. He goes out of his way to do things for you

4. He compliments you

5. He makes plans with you

6. He tries to make you laugh

7. He touches you (in a non-creepy way!)

8. His body language is open and receptive

9. He looks into your eyes when he talks to you

10. You just have a gut feeling that he’s interested!

How do you let a man pursue you?

The best way to let a man pursue you is to keep your distance. Don’t be too available and don’t give him any reason to think that you’re interested in him. Be friendly but not flirty.

Let him make the first move and let him take the lead. If he’s interested, he’ll pursue you. But if he’s not, then you haven’t wasted your time or energy on something that wasn’t meant to be.

28 Signs he is pursuing you

Here are 28 signs he is pursuing you that you can look out for:

1. He always texts first.

2. He wants to know everything about you.

3. He remembers the little things you say.

4. He goes out of his way to do things for you.

5. He constantly tries to make you laugh.

6. He loves spending time with you, even if it’s just hanging out and doing nothing special.

7. He always finds a way to touch you, even if it’s just a casual brush of your arm or hand.

8. His eyes light up when he sees you.

9. He makes an effort to look good for you, even if it’s just fixing his hair or wearing a nicer shirt than usual.

10. He always wants to know your opinion on things, even if it’s just what you think of a new restaurant he’s been wanting to try.

11. He gets jealous when you talk about other guys, even if there’s no reason to be jealous.

12. He always seems to be in a good mood when you’re around.

13. He loves hearing you talk, even if it’s just about your day or something mundane.

14. He always has time for you, even if he’s really busy with work or school.

15. He always texts back immediately, even if he’s busy at the moment.

16. He makes plans with you, even if they’re just small things like getting coffee or going for a walk.

17. He always seems happy to see you, even if you’ve only seen each other a few times.

18. He goes out of his way to do things for you, even if it’s just running an errand for you or getting you a coffee when he knows you need it.

19. He always wants to know how you’re doing, even if he hasn’t seen you in a while.

20. He always tries to make time for you, even if his schedule is really busy.

21. He listens to what you have to say, even if it’s something he doesn’t really agree with.

22. He always has a positive attitude, even when things are tough.

23. He’s always willing to help you, even if it’s just with your homework or a project you’re working on.

24. He never gets tired of spending time with you, even if you’ve been hanging out for hours.

25. He always makes sure you get home safely, even if it means walking you to your door or driving you home himself.

26. He always texts back, even if he’s busy at the moment.

27. He tries to spend as much time with you as possible, even if it means skipping out on other plans.

28. He always makes sure you’re happy, even if it means sacrificing his own happiness.

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Conclusion

So, how do you know if a guy is genuinely interested in you? The answer may not be as complicated as you think.

If he’s doing any of the things on our list of 28 signs he’s pursuing you, it’s a pretty good indication that he likes you and wants to get to know you better. And, even better, letting him pursue you can actually increase your chances of landing him!

Just remember to stay true to yourself and don’t let anyone pressure you into doing something that doesn’t feel right for you.

Thanks for following along with us on this journey of love and pursuit. What are some other ways that a man shows interest in pursuing you?